Welcome in 2018

Few weeks ago, Navish and I were on our short vacation. We had scheduled a trip, but the trip overlapped. So, from our hotel room, with nervous anticipation, we hit send and launched my little blog. From that day on, I have never looked back. I was very busy in recent days so could not start my blogs for 2018, but now I am back with new blogs about lifestyle.


Our labor of love has grown larger than we could’ve ever imagined. Our message of consensual non-monogamy through a more open/swinging/poly lifestyle has reached global proportions.

We have seen couples stretch their wings, soaring to new heights in their unions. Navish and I have ached with empathy as couples from other countries shared the brutal truth of restriction they face on a day-to-day basis. These couples have to “fly under the radar” in order to reap the benefits of this viable relationship model. We have talked to many of couples and singles who through watching a video or reading one of the my blogs, stepped over the line in the sand and visited a swingers’ apps or websites. The gratification Navish and I receive in seeing these smiling and excited faces in our own, pushes us even more to spread our message. To have a woman come up to me and say that she watched our videos and read my all blogs, they gave her the courage to come out to try this amazing lifestyle, fulfill a fantasy, or bring about a closer partnership with her husband leaves me emotionally charged.

Don’t even get me started on what We have learned from this journey. The stories of pain and triumph from the men and women who breached their egos to be vulnerable arouse their own “ah ha” moments for us.

“How can I be a better spouse? How can I walk through this fear? How can I show comparison?” Navish and I have laughed and cried and dug down deep with so many amazing couples and singles. We have rejoiced in their successes and been an ear and supportive shoulder through their struggles. We have shared our story and been blessed in return with the stories of others. It’s an honest and true working conversation for a common good.

The Swingersville has pushed the envelope for me. It has exposed the lifestyle in all its beauty and unapologetically stood up for a relationship model that’s gaining ground. Even in the short span of time “The Swingersville” has been in existence, we have seen a shift in people encouraging me to write, more and more articles.

Navish and I see a real shift from all generations. Whether a Baby Boomer or Millennial, these populations are spouting, “I will choose the relationship that works best for me, thank you very much!” to all my admirers, fans & followers.

I’ve said it before and I will say it again: As a society we should be applauding those couples who are taking the time, energy, and effort to tailor make a relationship that brings them closer. A relationship model in which all partners agree to engage in sexual, romantic, and/or emotional relationships with others. The results have been stronger, closer, and deeper marriages for those who participate. Who would have thought that by opening up a marriage the end result would bind the couple? We see this happen on a daily basis. We’re the “proof in the pudding,” so to speak.

In closing, I want to say again how indebted I am feeling to each and every one of you who has followed us. Your steadfast support is a driving force that keeps us fueled. To those new to the “The Swingersville” family…welcome! We hope you’ll find the answers in the pages, blogs what you are looking for. I look forward to another year of growth and expansion in 2018 (especially excited in the 2018 launch of Whatsapp Group for All My Admirers and Fans N Followers!!!) who like to connect with me directly to discuss and share their experiences and I am waiting for you to join us in this journey together.

If you like to connect with me Send me message on my fb page or email me amaaya@theswingersville.com