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Topic 1: Anal Sex (Part -2) – My Personal View & Experience

As I have mentioned in my first part of topic, Mostly men want to try anal sex with their sexual partner, and Navish is no stranger to the pleasures of anal sex.

But I had my reservations about this topic though in starting, not in the act itself, but in some of the things I’ve heard people talk about in relation to it and mostly about the pain it causes. But after experiencing it thoroughly I can say it, there are so many wonderful things that can be experienced when exploring anal sex, for any orientation or gender.

So here in this part I would say about my personal view & experience of “Anal Sex”

For some reason I constantly heard about how much anal sex hurts, I would say initially yes it hurts it pains and same was my experience but now after experiencing it with my sexual partners, my personal experience with the act I could say is amazing. If you take a phallic shaped object, and try to slam it into the anus with no preparation of course it will hurt. In fact, this can cause bleeding and tearing of the mucus membranes. I would say, “When you shove something up your ass, make sure to lube up and stretch everything beforehand. Also, if it hurts, you’re doing it WRONG.”

I’ve always looked at anal anything, when you are inserting something at the very least, as something to take your time with. Start getting ready at LEAST a week before hand, two if you want to be totally safe. Start with something small, like a finger. Lube it up and just play around back there for a while, there are nerve endings around the anus that can incite great feelings if you softly run a finger over them.

When you decide you want to start inserting your finger make sure you’ve used the bathroom beforehand and have washed the area. If you have a diet that had lots of leafy greens, this should clean you out pretty well. If your partner can’t get over a little poo when fucking you in the ass, then your partner shouldn’t be doing any fucking back there. Lube up your finger and slowly insert it, take your time and never rush.

After the first finger you can slowly start moving up to more fingers, when you have two in you can start to carefully scissor them, which will help to stretch everything out. A good rule of thumb is that if it hurts, don’t do it again and start from one finger again. As you continue to explore and play around, you’ll find that you can add more and/or bigger things over time.

This leads me back to the point of pain. If you prepare properly for any anal escapades, there should be NO PAIN WHATSOEVER. I can’t stress this enough, there is no reason for there to be any pain when you have anal sex. When you play around with your backdoor, it should be fun and pleasurable. Never, unless that is the goal, should it be painful. So, go forth my readers and diddle your backsides, and if you so choose, tell me how it went!

I myself had no personal experience with anal sex before marriage & entering in swingers’ lifestyle, but nevertheless it is still intriguing n enjoyable now. I think the main thing to remember when performing any sexual act involving the anus is to use tons of lube and a condom. I personally now have (or any) desire to do any sexual activities involving anal sex, because I know I am gonna really like it.

Do not stretch or do forcefully as it is shown in most of porn, It is unrealistic most of the time because they don’t show that you have to work up to it, and they just “dive” right in without proper stretching/preparation. I think that this causes some people to go into anal sex without proper knowledge and preparation and end up injuring themselves.

Communication is really important between sexual partners, for any sexual intercourse, but especially when there is a higher likely or injury if you both really wanna enjoy it.

Topic 1: Anal Sex (Part -1) – Information – Pleasure Vs Risks – Precaution

As I posted in some time before on all my social media handles, that I am thinking to bring some informative adult topics about which people do not like to talk much or might be do not have much information. I asked for suggestions for topics, and received so many such topics about which my followers want to read about, and I picked today first topic as “Anal Sex”, I know personally many men who are really interested in anal sex but do not know much about it so here I bring some information. If you guys like my blogs always give your feedback and suggestions.

Anal sex (also called as anal intercourse) is the sex act in which the penis is inserted into the anus of sexual partner. The term can also include other sexual acts involving the anus, including pegging, anilingus, fingering & object inserion.

While anal sex is commonly associated with male homosexuality, research shows not all gay males engage in anal sex and that it is not uncommon though in hetero sexual relationships. Types of anal sex can also be a part of lesbian sexual practices.

Many females find anal sex pleasurable, and some may reach to orgasm, as well through stimulation of prostate in men, and clitoral and G-Spot leg stimulation in women. However, many females find it painful as well, sometimes extremely so, which may be primarily due to psychological factors in some cases.

As with most forms of sexual interaction, anal sex participants risk contracting sexually transmitted diseases; anal sex is considered a high-risk sexual practice because of the vulnerability of the anus and rectum. The anal and rectal tissues are delicate and do not provide natural lubrication, so they can easily tear and permit disease transmission, especially if lubricant is not used. Unprotected anal sex is considered the riskiest form of sexual intercourse; authorities such as the WHO issue recommendations for making anal sex safer.

Heterosexual

Male to female

Some men may enjoy being the insertive partner in anal sex because the anal sphincter is usually tighter than a vagina, which can yield greater tactile pleasure for the man via his penis. The attitude of women towards being the receptive partner in this practice is diverse: while some consider it painful or uncomfortable, others find it pleasurable and some even prefer it to vaginal intercourse. Unlike the clitoris or anus, the vaginal walls “contain relatively few nerve endings, making intense sexual stimulation, pleasure, and orgasm from vaginal-only penetration unlikely” and “it’s generally only the lower third of the vagina that has enough nerve endings to feel any stimulation at all from a penis, finger, toy, or other penetrative object”. Vaginal intercourse may, however, promote a satisfying feeling of fullness or closeness with a sexual partner.

In a study female participants stated that stimulation to multiple erogenous zones simultaneously (the clitoris, the G-Spot, the anus, or other erogenous zones) enabled them to enjoy anal intercourse with much less discomfort compared to anal penetration by itself. When accompanied by one or more of the other stimuli, women were able to orgasm and those who did reported that an orgasm during anal sex is more of a full-body experience than an orgasm from clitoral stimulation alone.

Anal sex is held to carry a very low risk of unwanted pregnancy when not accompanied with vaginal intercourse, as anal intercourse cannot lead to pregnancy unless sperm is somehow transported to the vaginal opening in the process; in some populations, this activity is frequently used as a means of contraception, often in the absence of a condom.

The risk to the woman is greater than the risk to the man during male-to-female anal intercourse. The risk of injury to the receptive partner due to anal intercourse is many times higher than that due to vaginal sex, and the risk of transmission of HIV is higher for anal sex than for vaginal sex. Experts caution couples engaging in this practice to use protection, such as condoms, to stop the transmission of STDs. Additionally, if the man moves from anal sex immediately to vaginal sex without a condom or without changing it, infections can arise in the vagina due to bacteria present within the anus; this also applies to the use of sex toys.

Female virginity

Male-to-female anal sex may be viewed as a way of preserving female virginity because it is non-procreative and does not penetrate the hymen. Among sexually active heterosexuals, the concept of “technical virginity“, which includes anal sex, oral sex and mutual masturbation, is conceived as resting solely on penile-vaginal penetration.

Female to male (pegging)

Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo. I believe all men should try pegging at least once, as it may introduce them to a new enjoyable sexual activity and illuminate them to the receiver’s perspective in sex.  

Cannot say how many heterosexual men would like their anus to be sexually stimulated in a heterosexual relationship”, but from personal experience many men have enjoyed the stimulation. What we do have almost all relate to penetrative sexual acts, and the superficial contact of the anal ring with fingers or the tongue is even less well documented but may be assumed to be a common sexual activity for men of all sexual orientations.

Homosexual

Male to male

Historically, anal sex has been commonly associated with male homosexuality. However, many men who have sex with men do not engage in anal sex. Among men who have anal sex with other men, the insertive partner is called the top and the one being penetrated is called the bottom. Those who enjoy either role are referred to as versatile. Gay men who prefer anal sex may view it as “[their] version of intercourse” and as “the natural apex of sex, a wonderful expression of intimacy, and a great source of pleasure”.  “I think that anal sex has for gay men the same emotional significance that vaginal sex has for heterosexuals”.


Pain

Pain during receptive anal sex is formally known as anodyspareunia. One study found that about 12% of gay men find it too painful to pursue, and concluded that the perception of anal sex as painful is just as likely to be psychologically or emotionally based as it is to be physically based. Another study that examined pain during insertive and receptive anal sex in gay men found that 3% of tops (insertive partners) and 16% of bottoms (receptive partners) reported significant pain. Factors predictive of pain during anal sex include inadequate lubrication, feeling tense or anxious, lack of stimulation, as well as lack of social ease with being gay and being closeted. Research has found that psychological factors can in fact be the primary contributors to the experience of pain during anal intercourse and that adequate communication between sexual partners can prevent it, countering the notion that pain is always inevitable during anal sex.

Female to female

There is less research on anal sexual activity among women who have sex with women compared to couples of other sexual orientations, but stimulating the anus for sexual pleasure is stated to be a part of many lesbians’ sex lives; the anus can be rimmed – the tongue moved around its edge – stroked or penetrated with the fingers or a dildo.  When asked what techniques and lesbian sexual practices they used in their last ten sexual encounters, 100% reported kissing, sucking on breasts, and manual stimulation of the clitoris; more than 90% reported French kissing, oral sex, and fingers inserted into the vagina; and 80% reported tribadism. Lesbians in their 30s were twice as likely as other age groups to engage in anal stimulation (with a finger or dildo).

Health risks

Anal sex can expose participants to two principal dangers: infections due to the high number of infectious microorganisms not found elsewhere on the body, and physical damage to the anus and the rectum due to their fragility. Increased experimentation with anal sex by people without sound knowledge about risks and what safety measures do and don’t work may be linked to an increase in sexually transmitted infections. 

Infection

Unprotected anal sex, colloquially known as “barebacking“, carries an elevated risk of passing on sexually transmitted diseases because the anal sphincter is delicate, easily-torn tissue; a tear can provide an entry for pathogens. The high concentration of white blood cells around the rectum, together with the risk of tearing and the rectum’s function to absorb fluid, places those who engage in unprotected anal sex at high risk of sexually transmitted infection. Use of condoms, ample lubrication to reduce the risk of tearing, and other safer sex practices reduce the risk. However, a condom can break or come off during anal sex, so both sex partners must remain watchful during sex and there is still some risk if one or both partners carries a sexually-transmissible infection.

Unprotected receptive anal sex is considered the sex act most likely to result in HIV transmission. Other infections that can be transmitted by unprotected anal sex are human papilloma virus (HPV) (which can increase risk of anal cancer and typhoid fever), amoebiasis; chlamydia;cryptosporidiosis; E. coli infections; giardiasis; gonorrhea; hepatitis A; hepatitis B; hepatitis C; herpes simplex; Kaposi’s sarcoma-associated herpesvirus(HHV-8); lymphogranuloma venereum; Mycoplasma hominis; Mycoplasma genitalium; pubic lice; salmonellosis; shigella; syphilis; tuberculosis; andUreaplasma urealyticum.

I Became Slut During Exploration In Swingers Lifestyle

I Became Slut During Exploration In Swingers Lifestyle

And it definitely bring a kink in our sex life.

Hey all my fans & followers, I know my blog coming after long time. I got so many messages of your love & affection and questions about lifestyle, please always feel free to contact me and give your feedback. Actually I was very busy from last few months and then was thinking what about my next blog should be today I got some time and mood to write something from our exploration in swinger’s lifestyle.

In this blog of our continuous experience in series, is the reality of women’s sex lives who are in this lifestyle, as many of you know recently we made a vacation trip to Moscow a beautiful city, I really fell in love with Moscow & St. Petersburg. There we met with unmarried couple Vera (a pseudonym) a married woman & Ruskin who is unmarried but they both are in relationship who unexpectedly got into swinging during third-anniversary of relationship which they told us on a cruise trip.

So here is my story with them, Navish and I were looking for an adults-club in Moscow during our vacation to celebrate our next kink experiment. We came across a “clothing optional lifestyle takeover club.” The materials talked about dance parties, clothing-optional areas, and playrooms, including a dungeon (like a castle). We assumed it will be nice place to enjoy our next experiment in “lifestyle”. It was only after we’d booked the table that we realized it meant for swingers. We figured we could go, even though we didn’t plan to participate just wanted to go with flow as usual.

Leading up to the club, though, we got to know some of the other couples & singles online and began to make our minds. It started with talk of me being interested in playing with other women in Russia and evolved into “Let’s just go for it and enjoy all this club has to offer.”

We really didn’t know what to expect when we got there, and were definitely surprised. Some people were completely nude, some just topless, some in tiny outfits, and some fully clothed. No one seemed to mind, or even notice, what anyone else was or wasn’t wearing.

We also turned into semi-nude condition after liking the ambience of place. We danced with a couple Vera & Ruskin with whom we’d chatted with online. We didn’t get fully naked, but there was some flashing and roaming hands. As all of you till now know Navish and I are into “full swap,” which means that we are okay with penetrative sex with other people, but their (Vera & Ruskin) rules were stricter than ours.

After the dance club closed, we all went to the 24-hour open Bar which they told us about. After few drinks we left with them to their place as they invited us to stay with them.

At their place there were 3 beds spaced with small tables between them. We all went to one bed and started by getting undressed and making out with our own partners. Soon I felt the woman’s hand caressing my breast as I was kissing my Navish. Then Ruskin, while still kissing her, started to finger me.

At one point Navish went to the restroom. While he was in restroom, Ruskin went down on Vera while I kissed her and played with her breasts. Then we shifted and I went down on him while she went down on me. While this they told me that they are also into paid stuff and know some very good singles who could join us for fun and pay a handsome amount. If we are interested they can arrange it and have a group fun. When Navish came back from restroom, he watched for a minute, then joined us. Later they told him as well, Navish just looked at me & I nodded he understood my consent and asked them to arrange it. As it was not our first paid experience but yes with unknown people at new place it was gonna first for us, we are not regular in paid stuff, but it brings some kink and we just enjoy it as experiment & for our kink on our own terms & conditions. But this time we just opened up for idea for someone else we never met before.

We just finished our swap with them and it was awesome they both were pretty amazing in bed.

After some time, Ruskin just made few calls and in few minutes two Russian guys came inside the room.

The atmosphere of the room became naughtier and made us more open to trying new things. The guys told us they never had experience with any Indian lady before so it was first for them as well. But they asked if they both can enjoy with me alone means without Navish joining us, till them atmosphere was getting more hot and we all agreed Navish, Vera & Ruskin just sat on other bed, and the two guys came near me on bed.

After a little while, I started giving head while the other guy started licking me down. He’d had a lot to drink and to his dick was getting hard. We had tried threesome a before many times, but it wasn’t the same do not know what happened to me I was feeling like a slut inside somewhere. They played a little while more in same position, and then asked me to join them to the hot tubs.

The atmosphere of the room made me more open to trying everything there. Throughout the night, we had two more play sessions also later the guys asked Navish & Ruskin also to join in as gangbang & Vera was just watching till then & later they all made gangbang with Vera & I was watching it.

I can say this after several experiences, there has to be some physical attraction when we decide who to play with, but the connection we form with Vera & Ruskin was the bigger factor to get into all this. We want to play with people who are fun and stable in their relationship. We have a very low tolerance for drama. Since we play as a couple or individual in both ways, there has to be a all-way match in terms of attraction.

Next morning, Ruskin left for his work but we stayed there for some more time and other two guys were also there, we were talking to Vera and the woman stripped down to nothing in the kitchen and smile and just kept on chatting. This was very exciting for us, but we tried not to let it show & gave her more space to enjoy what she was looking for. Ten minutes later, Navish stripped down too. He suggested that other guys to do the same. Navish was down on her & other two guys picked me up and took me under shower, For the Next one hour we were just under the shower and they did not left a single part of my body to caressed and smooched I was cordial when they’d run into me.

I always thought swingers were people who would have sex with any random person. But those we’ve met want the same thing that we want: friendship with like-minded couples, and if we happen to have fun in sexual ways from time to time, that’s a bonus, we were really enjoying all of our fun happening there.

Nothing left to try their which we could think more, it was like group play, not just swapping partners.

In between we tried without Condoms as well. We both have veto power, meaning that if there is another man I want to play with without protection, Navish can say no at any time for any reason and it will not happen, whether he’s not comfortable with the guy or isn’t interested at that point of time & same happens with me. We rarely play without condom but at their place I became sluttier to enjoy & experiment more openly, but before we did it only with a couple we know really well, and never strangers.

Now we’ve become really good friends with them as well. In afternoon one guy left and only me Navish, Vera & one guy left we locked the door one the guy left and get naked again and played. After sometime Vera’s husband also called and she left for some urgent work.

Ruskin told us he will come in evening after work so not we & one guy was only at his place. We started to arrange dinner date and drinks. Ruskin came back around 9pm. He invited 2 of his college friends for dinner & drinks as well. After dinner he suggested we might play a game like sexy dice or watch a movie with sexual undertones. And all decided to go with a movie.

We started watching a movie & in between the other guy who was with us from last night again started caressing my nips over my top, and Navish was sitting beside me. In few minutes other men (Ruskin’s college friends) stopped watching movie rather started staring me and other guy while he was caressing my boobs & nips. And in few minutes we all were naked and it was my first experience of two consecutive nights with a gangbang experience, first night it was four guys but Vera also were there and this night now it is five guys & only me there in room then.

I was nowhere in mood to say no this time as well, and enjoyed two sessions in whole night with an awesome experience.

Swinging has helped our sex life in all ways but this experience really made me feel kinkier & sluttier, when we left next morning Ruskin’s place the guy handed over an envelope with very handsome money inside with note that it was his unbelievable experience for which he was fantasizing from long time but never happened and we made it real for him.

So it was our one of other experience, will try to bring more in coming days depends on my timing & mood till then

Ciao!

With Love

Amaaya

PRIVATE SWING LIFESTYLE PARTIES – PART ONE

After my recent blog about the birthday party, I got many messages to write more about any of our experience of swingers party so here you go,

One Saturday afternoon looking at our facebook profile on our swinger social account, we got a message by private that caught our attention, in which we were told that a party had been organized for that same night, that couples would come very attractive and that they would like us to attend, if the answer would be yes they would indicate us time and address.
 A chill mixture of fear and curiosity ran through our bodies, in this sense we were totally newbies that time in lifestyle, having gone to the few couple meets but never to such an event, we did not doubt it much and answered that we would be delighted. 
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Soon a message arrived with the location and schedule, all a little mysterious but exciting ... we began to choose the what we are gonna wear with great care, the black never fails, some light and an Armani set that I had given as gift from close friend, some beautiful black shoes, a dress so short that you could see the ornaments of the medium, undoubtedly a delight for any fetishist, good girl perfume by CH and an intense red lipstick Yves Saint Laurent, it seems that the night promised pleasant surprises. We got in the car and programmed the browser to the location they had given me, we start to drive to the location and asked if I was beautiful, Navish could not take his eyes off my legs, He could see my light blacks, start here started the adventure. 

After a half-hour drive, we entered an urbanization of houses and houses of high economic level, the GPS navigator with his computerized voice informed us that we had reached our destination.
 
We took a deep breath, we shook hands and we deposited to call the doorman, a light came on and a camera focused on us, we opened the door and a very polite and correct party guest greeted us and introduced himself, commented that Amaaya is looking beautiful A little blushing smiled and thanked.
 
He opened the door of the house and we found a party full of laser lights and music at a high volume, from the outside you could not tell anything was surprising, many couples came to greet us in turns, at the end they introduced you all. Beautiful with little dresses some already in lingerie, a square table was full of all kinds of drinks and food. Immediately the owners of the house greeted us, very educated people put everything at our disposal. The atmosphere was very pleasant alcohol consumption in this type of parties is moderate, we talked with a couple about a local or anecdote of our environment, the night passed between looks and laughter, you notice if a couple attracts you and you know your partner and you know what you like ...
 
At about twelve o'clock the host took a microphone and with a determined voice said that all the girls had to move to change, Maria ignored and all disappeared together, all men alone in expectation, what would they be doing?
 
After a few minutes that were eternal, I'm not used to leaving alone like this, it's one of our rules "all together”, but we trusted our hosts, all ladies were given some sort of dresses and asked to change to it by our sizes, one of sexy nurse, another of police, I took a dress of belly dancer, I noticed a girl from a couple who attracted us, tall brunette something younger than us, the boy caring and quite friendly.
 
Then the couples began to merge, kisses caresses, moans, girls kissing each other in each occupied space...
  
Continue...
Do not forget to give your feedback & comments for the next part.

Amaaya 

RULES TO BE FOLLOW FOR SWINGERS

The 10 swinger commandments

1. You will not try to break up any marriage, nor will you try to establish a stable relationship. In these cases you can not get involved romantically.

2. You will respect the appointments that you agree and you will notify opportunely in case of any unforeseen change.

3. You will go to the first date with the idea of ​​Swinger, not to waste your neighbor's time.

4. Never for any reason you will put pressure on anyone to force him to practice the swinger, whether it is your partner.

5. You will not talk about the Swinger lifestyle with people who have not expressed any interest in it. You will respect the ideologies and moral beliefs of others, even when they do not respect yours.

6. You will protect the anonymity of the Swinger people, with the same zeal that you defend yours and you will always use pseudonyms. You will not provide telephones, addresses or names of anyone, much less the meeting points of appointments, without prior authorization.

7. You will take care of your hygiene and personal appearance to the maximum.

8. Do not do anything that disparages or gives a bad name to the Swinger lifestyle.

9. Be friendly and behave warmly with your Swingers friends, but keep in mind that there is a certain type of emotional zone that only belongs to that person's partner. Never invade territories that do not belong to you.

10. Practice safe sex, use the condom and everything that protects both your health and that of others.

Questions From Followers – Part 1


Quest 1. What if I develop feelings for a play partner?

Actually this is a very important topic.  If you regularly meet with the same person and share an intimate activity like having sex, it is not terribly surprising that you may develop feelings for the person.  Someone you only see once or twice, probably not, but once you are with someone more than about a half dozen times, it can certainly happen.  In and of itself, this is not a bad thing, nor is it anything to be afraid of.  You simply must be reasonable about how to deal with it.  Personally, I’ve had this happen twice.  Perhaps these instances will be instructive for new people.

I had a regular playmate develop feelings for me and it became uncomfortable for his wife.  And the guy began to demand more and more of my time until it became unreasonable.  He also wanted to call me his “Girlfriend” or even asked me if he can introduce time to his few friends as his wife, because his wife is not as open I am and as what he wants her to be open.  It got to the point I had to tell him we could not see each other again.

On other friend I enjoyed playing with him he was understating and very co-operative without any unnecessary drama, it was really fun and lately we both get attracted to each other and developed some feelings.  But it never happened that we started disliking our own partners. We knew our relationship & respect the required space for each other’s personal life.  We had some good times together apart from our own spouses joined us.  Looking back, I don’t regret what happened and still we are in touch and we still have feelings for each other which make us more comfortable with each other.

The second time was a much different story.  This guy and I both developed feelings for each other.  Obviously both of us were married, mind you, and neither of us had any intention of leaving our spouses or anything crazy like that.  However, we had some real magic together and it steadily grew.  Eventually we let it go a little too far and said some things we shouldn’t have said.  

Navish took it kindly to that (justifiably so) and we had to take a time out and dial it back.  We still see each other and it is still amazing when we do, but we had to redraw some boundaries that had gotten a bit too blurry.  

From my personal experience there is no permanent damage done and anything stupid happened and we both are still happily married with our spouses.  The point remains that you have to be careful.  This is supposed to be fun, harmless fun at that, and nobody wants anyone to get hurt.  Occasionally you need a wave of reality to crash down on your sandcastle of fantasy you build and that is fine.  So long as you keep straight what is real life and what is playtime fun all should be well.

In general these things should happen infrequently.  As the Most Interesting Man in the World might say (I LOVE YOU) “I don’t always have feelings for my play partners, but when I do, I keep sharing it with Navish. So I would say all my friends in lifestyle, Stay horny make your boundaries and respect your relationship, developing feelings for play partner is very normal and it happens.

Quest 2. What if I want to exclusively play with someone, is that still swinging?

Yes.  Sometimes couples find another couple or even a small group they decide they want to exclusively play with and that is fine.  This can work in a few different ways.  Perhaps one couple decides they only want to play with these particular people and that is then all they do in terms of going outside their primary relationship.  Perhaps everyone decides that (whatever number of people this involves) represents the only people they will have sex with and because of this small scale exclusivity, they will no longer use condoms with these people.  On the other hand, it could be that within your exclusive circle you don’t use condoms but people have the right to go outside the circle so long as they do use protection for outside encounters.  This can be a very touchy subject that should not be lightly entered into and should be thoroughly discussed with all people involved to make sure everyone is on the same page.

Having another couple or even a small group to go to parties with or go to clubs with could be pretty awesome.  You can still get the benefit of being able to watch others or have others watch you with one of your circle even if you don’t attempt to have sex with any new people.  You would also have the huge advantage of knowing no matter what happens, you have one person (or more) besides your primary partner that you can have sex with (so you never need to worry about striking out).

Deciding to be exclusive is a very big step.  It can easily lead to feelings developing between non-spouse sex partners and that can be very threatening to a lot of people, even those who are fine with more casual sexual encounters by their significant others.  I thought about doing this once briefly but did not do it.  In retrospect, that was a good decision NOT to do so.  However, I can certainly see the benefits of such an arrangement provided that everyone gets along well and you aren’t stupid with the arrangement.  I’d define being “stupid” here as doing things like making ridiculous time demands on another person’s spouse, clearly intruding on someone’s territory, or playing more often with someone’s partner than they are comfortable with having occur.    If you are honest and respectful, I can see this being a very nice arrangement.  However, it is extremely difficult to find even four (let alone more) people who are all attracted to each other enough to have an ongoing, let alone exclusive, sexual relationship.  If you can do it though, have at it!

If you also have any question in mind please share it with me, if I could answer you from my experience will do it in upcoming next parts.

With Love,

Amaaya

Play Party – On Birthday of a Special Friend

Recently in March Month this year, our one special friend John from Ireland organized his birthday party and invited us too, we have met him couple of time and “Hell Ya” had intimate too with him. He told us that he is organizing a play party this time on his birthday and inviting few couples friends and as well single friends from lifestyle. And as he admire me a lot he invited us as couple to join his party and insisted to come which I could not deny and accepted and confirmed him that we will definitely join.

He organized party on one of best resort in City he booked a Sea view villa with big hall, and the birthday party took place in the form of a sensual and erotic formal dinner, followed by a play party. It was one of the most liberating and sexy experiences I’ve had from our group parties. Being in that huge space, surrounded by like-minded individuals & couples, indulging in amazing food, wine, and then all kinds of touch was an outstanding experience.

Our Swinging Life’s couple friend also joined as group with whom we had intimate earlier as well. And all those who have seen us our wild part of life, recognized us, with the space since the big dinner party and bathroom play party scene also took place there. There was an incredible meal served by sexy, masked servers who touched and tantalized all ladies as they made their way around the room. The food was sensuous and flavorful but they knew not to serve huge portions so we wouldn’t be too full to indulge into the onsite play party after the meal.

I was just remembering our last group party which was actually disastrous experience as we didn’t like it much which was few months before organized by a newly swinger couple, I was pretty nervous this time and did not want to spoil it again but people who joined here were pretty known so I was more comfortable in and was ready by mind to enjoy the play portion of the evening.

After sometime Shine (One of our couple friend) announced that birthday boy is coming soon to join the party for who all this was organized so he said, ‘Take off your clothes! To welcome the birthday boy’ while the birthday boy was out of the room, instead of worrying or any hesitant few of people started undressing and just had undies on them, I also decided to utilize the bravery of the enthusiastic people as my own and dove head into the proceedings, stripping down to my sexy undies also helped to Navish to do so. When John came to hall, he was happily surprised to be greeted by a room full of people in their underwear. John just saw me at first and directly came to me and kissed me on lips, and announced in party as I am his special guest for his birthday party to be honored.

Emboldened by my uncharacteristic bravery, I kept channeling it and once we’d moved into the play space, I asked a fully-dressed guy John, I didn’t know very well if he thought he was wearing too many clothes and if he wanted me to help remedy that. He did want that. Shortly after, when the first few people got completely naked, we did the same and one of the sexy party goers crossed the room excitedly to get his hands on my body. Navish got busy with his favorite couple’s wife from Moldova, I stood for several minutes while a group of 5 or 6 people touched and stroked me and make jokes about my ass being Grade A+, Heaven!

From here, the night gets rather blurry, but I have flashes of the exceptional moments of the play party, which was an awesome experience and quite the opposite of the fear and anxiety fest I’d previously encountered. I am mentioning what all I loved there point wise

  • Squirting into the eager mouth of Olivia, a woman I’d met but barely known previously, as she went down on me.
  • Bracing a desk against the force of a man fucking his wife on it while I fingered Olivia on same desk.
  • Watching Reina and Olivia together. The love and intimacy between the girlfriends was incredibly moving to witness.
  • Discovered myself in a Bathroom play party with full of people where no one was with his or her own partner and was showering each other to get more wet n wild.
  • Guys Fucking one woman, then jokingly calling out, “Next!” and having another woman immediately ask to fuck her.
  • I did a quick condom change, for 2 guys who asked me to join them and lately complimented me as stunningly hot.
  • Doing gratuitous bending to pick things up off the floor. Getting spanked by Flick in that fully bent over position until my legs gave out.
  • Asking for a kiss from the sexiest server, who’d stayed for the party, and receiving delicious biting kisses from him.
  • Sucking again Olivia’s husband’s dick before he fucked my other friend, after he left to clean up, kissing her deeply. Kissing him upon his return after the question, “May I kiss you
  • Blowing Flick on the desk again while Reina played with my nipples and Olivia pressed up behind me, stroking and kissing me until he moved to fondle with his balls and he came inside me.
  • Lying side by side with as we got off with our choice of guy.
  • Flick working me over with again with John to give him special gift on his birthday. Having convulsive pleasure waves that reportedly had people watching from all around the room. Hysterical laugh-gasm when finally some of group members get off and left the party.
  • We 3 couples and 2 single friends stayed there for night stay and left from there next morning.

If you happen to be in the Bay area with sexy group of friends, I’d highly recommend attending a party, First time I enjoyed at fullest an Our Gourmet Group of Swinger’s Life party play. It’s an outstanding experience that I’m really glad I got to have and to share it with you.

And it’s true. I totally do fuck like a rock star that night.

Please share with me if you also have such experience or if you have any such fantasy! Do not forget to comment and give your love for me as usual and thank you all of you to encourage me to write and share more from my experience Diary.

With Love,

Amaaya