PRIVATE SWING LIFESTYLE PARTIES – PART ONE

After my recent blog about the birthday party, I got many messages to write more about any of our experience of swingers party so here you go,

One Saturday afternoon looking at our facebook profile on our swinger social account, we got a message by private that caught our attention, in which we were told that a party had been organized for that same night, that couples would come very attractive and that they would like us to attend, if the answer would be yes they would indicate us time and address.
 A chill mixture of fear and curiosity ran through our bodies, in this sense we were totally newbies that time in lifestyle, having gone to the few couple meets but never to such an event, we did not doubt it much and answered that we would be delighted. 
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Soon a message arrived with the location and schedule, all a little mysterious but exciting ... we began to choose the what we are gonna wear with great care, the black never fails, some light and an Armani set that I had given as gift from close friend, some beautiful black shoes, a dress so short that you could see the ornaments of the medium, undoubtedly a delight for any fetishist, good girl perfume by CH and an intense red lipstick Yves Saint Laurent, it seems that the night promised pleasant surprises. We got in the car and programmed the browser to the location they had given me, we start to drive to the location and asked if I was beautiful, Navish could not take his eyes off my legs, He could see my light blacks, start here started the adventure. 

After a half-hour drive, we entered an urbanization of houses and houses of high economic level, the GPS navigator with his computerized voice informed us that we had reached our destination.
 
We took a deep breath, we shook hands and we deposited to call the doorman, a light came on and a camera focused on us, we opened the door and a very polite and correct party guest greeted us and introduced himself, commented that Amaaya is looking beautiful A little blushing smiled and thanked.
 
He opened the door of the house and we found a party full of laser lights and music at a high volume, from the outside you could not tell anything was surprising, many couples came to greet us in turns, at the end they introduced you all. Beautiful with little dresses some already in lingerie, a square table was full of all kinds of drinks and food. Immediately the owners of the house greeted us, very educated people put everything at our disposal. The atmosphere was very pleasant alcohol consumption in this type of parties is moderate, we talked with a couple about a local or anecdote of our environment, the night passed between looks and laughter, you notice if a couple attracts you and you know your partner and you know what you like ...
 
At about twelve o'clock the host took a microphone and with a determined voice said that all the girls had to move to change, Maria ignored and all disappeared together, all men alone in expectation, what would they be doing?
 
After a few minutes that were eternal, I'm not used to leaving alone like this, it's one of our rules "all together”, but we trusted our hosts, all ladies were given some sort of dresses and asked to change to it by our sizes, one of sexy nurse, another of police, I took a dress of belly dancer, I noticed a girl from a couple who attracted us, tall brunette something younger than us, the boy caring and quite friendly.
 
Then the couples began to merge, kisses caresses, moans, girls kissing each other in each occupied space...
  
Continue...
Do not forget to give your feedback & comments for the next part.

Amaaya 

RULES TO BE FOLLOW FOR SWINGERS

The 10 swinger commandments

1. You will not try to break up any marriage, nor will you try to establish a stable relationship. In these cases you can not get involved romantically.

2. You will respect the appointments that you agree and you will notify opportunely in case of any unforeseen change.

3. You will go to the first date with the idea of ​​Swinger, not to waste your neighbor's time.

4. Never for any reason you will put pressure on anyone to force him to practice the swinger, whether it is your partner.

5. You will not talk about the Swinger lifestyle with people who have not expressed any interest in it. You will respect the ideologies and moral beliefs of others, even when they do not respect yours.

6. You will protect the anonymity of the Swinger people, with the same zeal that you defend yours and you will always use pseudonyms. You will not provide telephones, addresses or names of anyone, much less the meeting points of appointments, without prior authorization.

7. You will take care of your hygiene and personal appearance to the maximum.

8. Do not do anything that disparages or gives a bad name to the Swinger lifestyle.

9. Be friendly and behave warmly with your Swingers friends, but keep in mind that there is a certain type of emotional zone that only belongs to that person's partner. Never invade territories that do not belong to you.

10. Practice safe sex, use the condom and everything that protects both your health and that of others.

Play Party – On Birthday of a Special Friend

Recently in March Month this year, our one special friend John from Ireland organized his birthday party and invited us too, we have met him couple of time and “Hell Ya” had intimate too with him. He told us that he is organizing a play party this time on his birthday and inviting few couples friends and as well single friends from lifestyle. And as he admire me a lot he invited us as couple to join his party and insisted to come which I could not deny and accepted and confirmed him that we will definitely join.

He organized party on one of best resort in City he booked a Sea view villa with big hall, and the birthday party took place in the form of a sensual and erotic formal dinner, followed by a play party. It was one of the most liberating and sexy experiences I’ve had from our group parties. Being in that huge space, surrounded by like-minded individuals & couples, indulging in amazing food, wine, and then all kinds of touch was an outstanding experience.

Our Swinging Life’s couple friend also joined as group with whom we had intimate earlier as well. And all those who have seen us our wild part of life, recognized us, with the space since the big dinner party and bathroom play party scene also took place there. There was an incredible meal served by sexy, masked servers who touched and tantalized all ladies as they made their way around the room. The food was sensuous and flavorful but they knew not to serve huge portions so we wouldn’t be too full to indulge into the onsite play party after the meal.

I was just remembering our last group party which was actually disastrous experience as we didn’t like it much which was few months before organized by a newly swinger couple, I was pretty nervous this time and did not want to spoil it again but people who joined here were pretty known so I was more comfortable in and was ready by mind to enjoy the play portion of the evening.

After sometime Shine (One of our couple friend) announced that birthday boy is coming soon to join the party for who all this was organized so he said, ‘Take off your clothes! To welcome the birthday boy’ while the birthday boy was out of the room, instead of worrying or any hesitant few of people started undressing and just had undies on them, I also decided to utilize the bravery of the enthusiastic people as my own and dove head into the proceedings, stripping down to my sexy undies also helped to Navish to do so. When John came to hall, he was happily surprised to be greeted by a room full of people in their underwear. John just saw me at first and directly came to me and kissed me on lips, and announced in party as I am his special guest for his birthday party to be honored.

Emboldened by my uncharacteristic bravery, I kept channeling it and once we’d moved into the play space, I asked a fully-dressed guy John, I didn’t know very well if he thought he was wearing too many clothes and if he wanted me to help remedy that. He did want that. Shortly after, when the first few people got completely naked, we did the same and one of the sexy party goers crossed the room excitedly to get his hands on my body. Navish got busy with his favorite couple’s wife from Moldova, I stood for several minutes while a group of 5 or 6 people touched and stroked me and make jokes about my ass being Grade A+, Heaven!

From here, the night gets rather blurry, but I have flashes of the exceptional moments of the play party, which was an awesome experience and quite the opposite of the fear and anxiety fest I’d previously encountered. I am mentioning what all I loved there point wise

  • Squirting into the eager mouth of Olivia, a woman I’d met but barely known previously, as she went down on me.
  • Bracing a desk against the force of a man fucking his wife on it while I fingered Olivia on same desk.
  • Watching Reina and Olivia together. The love and intimacy between the girlfriends was incredibly moving to witness.
  • Discovered myself in a Bathroom play party with full of people where no one was with his or her own partner and was showering each other to get more wet n wild.
  • Guys Fucking one woman, then jokingly calling out, “Next!” and having another woman immediately ask to fuck her.
  • I did a quick condom change, for 2 guys who asked me to join them and lately complimented me as stunningly hot.
  • Doing gratuitous bending to pick things up off the floor. Getting spanked by Flick in that fully bent over position until my legs gave out.
  • Asking for a kiss from the sexiest server, who’d stayed for the party, and receiving delicious biting kisses from him.
  • Sucking again Olivia’s husband’s dick before he fucked my other friend, after he left to clean up, kissing her deeply. Kissing him upon his return after the question, “May I kiss you
  • Blowing Flick on the desk again while Reina played with my nipples and Olivia pressed up behind me, stroking and kissing me until he moved to fondle with his balls and he came inside me.
  • Lying side by side with as we got off with our choice of guy.
  • Flick working me over with again with John to give him special gift on his birthday. Having convulsive pleasure waves that reportedly had people watching from all around the room. Hysterical laugh-gasm when finally some of group members get off and left the party.
  • We 3 couples and 2 single friends stayed there for night stay and left from there next morning.

If you happen to be in the Bay area with sexy group of friends, I’d highly recommend attending a party, First time I enjoyed at fullest an Our Gourmet Group of Swinger’s Life party play. It’s an outstanding experience that I’m really glad I got to have and to share it with you.

And it’s true. I totally do fuck like a rock star that night.

Please share with me if you also have such experience or if you have any such fantasy! Do not forget to comment and give your love for me as usual and thank you all of you to encourage me to write and share more from my experience Diary.

With Love,

Amaaya

My Perspective of Sexual Experience with Indian Men

Recently I Post on My Facebook Account, To Suggest A Topic for My Next Blog, One of My Blog Follower/Fan suggested very interesting topic to share my experience in lifestyle with different nationalities, it really gives me a thought to write something as I have now experience of lifestyle with people from different places.

But I will try to compare my experience with Indian Men Vs Men from Other Countries, actually not compare but I will try where Indian men lack from Men from other places to satisfy me. It doesn’t mean not a single man from India satisfied me, but yes in general still Indian men has to learn few expertise to satisfy fully their partners.

As now we are in swinger’s lifestyle from last 6-7 years, and have met people around the world if I count have encountered people in swinger’s lifestyle from around 20+ Countries. I’ve experienced normal date to sexual encounters. But in our lifestyle people mostly consider experience for sexual encounter only so let me tell me experience of Indian Men and Men from other countries. As a lady in Swingers lifestyle I have learnt from people of different countries, the intimacy and sexual skills through different prospective.

Out of all my experience, I have had with about 40-50 men mainly Indians, but also from Men from countries like United States, Canada, Ireland, United Kingdom, Australia, Germany, Spain, Sweden and few more. Their age range is 23-48 years, so from here you can know the youngest with whom I had was 23 & oldest was 48. Some of them were married & few were singles. From this I will share my experience, I know till now many of you become curious to know more.

Mostly Indian men, have grew up with very little sex education. They often went to boy only schools. They have minimal sexual exploration prior to getting married to a woman who is also very inexperienced. They end up frustrated by sex because they lack knowledge of anatomy and skill. In addition to inexperience, they also suffer from erectile dysfunction and rapid ejaculation. This all is based on my personal experience. Whereas men from other countries are more knowledgeable and skillful, while sharing everything with their partner.

A few typical Indian men came to me, in order to learn how to be a better lover to a woman and to also address his rapid ejaculation issue. After reading my blogs many people discussed their personal questions and I tried to give them correct information so they can enjoy it more.

From the questions I ask, I understood that most of Indian Men would prefer to have sex with his wife 4-6 times a week, but they end up only having sex 2-3 weeks. They keep their sexual interaction to a very basic level – there is rarely any massage, oral sex, shared sexy talk of fantasies and desires, or toys being incorporated into their lovemaking sessions. Also, they told me even if they try to explore their conservative wives did not like to co-operate as they consider it as taboo.

Most of these men do not know how to kiss or touch a woman. They have a very passionate and magnetic attitude toward women, but they approach a woman very hot and frantic, as if they are a hungry wolf and she is a delicious prey animal. The man is drawn to the woman and her female energy, but they also fear her sexuality. They are in eager and in awe, and it makes for an immature advance, which is off-putting for the woman.

The man hurriedly grabs at the woman and is rough and fast. When he inserts his manhood in the woman, he is already so agitated, he has a quick orgasm. Then he immediately feels shame and retreats, eyes averted, sometimes leaving quickly. Disappointment shrouds the encounter instead of joy.

Most men lack an understanding of how to approach a woman:

I regard creepiness as pushing boundaries and personal space too soon – eagerness and lack of social awareness makes this behavior repelling, instead of compelling.

Let’s take the old chicken or egg dilemma. Guess what? The egg came first, and women represent the egg. Men – you came out of an egg. Don’t peck the egg to death when you’re trying to get back in.

Instead of making big asks right off the bat, come at women with a “what can I do for you?” attitude, this what I personally liked in other men, they really care for what their partner likes on bed, so that they make them feel comfortable. After all, you have to energize her, not drain her. Once a woman feels comfortable and valued as a human being, then you can get freaky later on.

Being pushy, entitled, and dishonest will only drive women further away from you.

Here is what I wish to teach few Indian partners, a woman wants passion as much as a man, but she needs to be approached differently. Imagine the man is a torch, and the woman is a gold chalice filled with water. The man should not jab at the woman and knock her over, spilling the water. Instead, he should gently approach her with an open heart, caress the sides of the chalice with his flame, warming her slowly, causing the gold to glow, and heating the water within. In time, the water will be nice and hot and inviting for both of them to bask and enjoy.

In other words, both the man and woman need to learn how to conquer shame and replace the fear with love. They must learn how to give and give, and realize that bodies are temples of pleasure and to conduct themselves with pleasure and playfulness in mind.

Men should recognize that a woman’s body is a lush, full landscape to be explored with gentle fingers and tongue. A woman’s body is more than just her breasts and genitals. Women love maturity and appreciation. Lovemaking can be a form of worship. Consider the ritual of preparing for lovemaking – bathing and adorning yourself. Then there is the ritual itself of shared ecstasy. Do not forget the aftercare ritual – cuddling, communication, cleaning up and rest.

It is difficult to overcome decades of sex-negativity, but with patience and compassion, a positive shift can be made, and both men and women can greatly benefit from a mutually respectful approach to sex – it is a creative expression and celebration!

Please do not forget to leave your comments and reviews, if any of you would like to discuss anything related to swinger’s lifestyle or perspectives as woman sharing bed with multiple partners, I am available through email or sometime on Whatsapp Too.

With Love,

Amaaya

My Experience in Yerevan As A Stripper – Part 2

Hello everyone, first of all thank you for all of you for reading my blogs and giving such love and affection, I am really glad to get such responses to my blogs.

Secondly sorry from last few months I was really very busy so couldn’t get time to write for you.

From long time since I posted blog about my Yerevan experience, I received lot of messages to write about the next visit to strippers’ club, so today here I am writing my own experience of Yerevan Night Club as a Stripper, hope you all will give same love to this blog and upcoming blogs.

For some reason we could not go to next day to meet Fatima again, but I promised Fatima to visit her once before we leave Yerevan.

So after two days, our last night in Yerevan, Capital city of Armenia, me & Mridul decided to go to meet Fatima as we had flight next day afternoon, so we could manage to go to a club.

Around 21:00 – 21:30  we reached to the club where we met Fatima once again, she is really a sweetheart, and yes till now we are in touch through Whatsapp. She introduced us an exotic dancer, Clarice is the kind of lady who can give any man a heart attack. Fatima told me Clarice perform only on special occasions in club, and mentioned especially “Only for men with strong hearts” she joked, we all laughed and I nodded with an agreement.

Clarice took me to the VIP section of a strip club where there were private rooms with limited number of guests obviously they pay bit more to get more privacy. She told me that she had just come from making a middle-aged Chinese constructor sweat who offered her a great amount to perform for him in private.

Clarice told me that, she is a 25-year-old mother of two (she adopted one of the children), who makes her living as a stripper. She thinks her job is crazy, unpredictable and misunderstood.

And like many in the trade, Clarice lives a double life.

“Her parents don’t know that she does this for earning. Not even her friends and neighbors know,” she opens up.

“She confessed honestly don’t know what will happen if they find out. I have never thought about that. But she enjoys her work now”

This time I had come to the club seeking something more to get experience of this please. I sat with her wondering: What is a girl’s motivation for taking her clothes off for a living? Is it out of desperation?

Does she enjoy dancing naked in front of strangers? Is it the money or the attention? All these questions were running in my mind and I wanted to get answers from Clarice.

“Clarice has studied at one of best school in country. Although her parents wanted her to go to university, but she wanted to be a dancer,” she recalls.

She was introduced to exotic dancing and has never looked back since then. The men and women who watch her dance are amazed by her skills. She sashayed down the stage and grabbed a metal pole that stuck out from the middle of the stage then stretched her legs. The air was immediately filled with catcalls and whistles. Male eyes peered through the hazy smoke towards her.

I observed as men watched her from all sides. I saw a couple of them drooling.

After her first performance there I really became fan of her, she was truly amazing Diva, in her rest time I asked the questions which were in my mind, and she just replied, “Oh Amaaya! It is tough to answer verbally for your all questions, why don’t you join me in my next performance and experience it all, what it is actually.” I just laughed and said Clarice I am not even near to you in dancing I don’t think I can do this with the grace she does. She again invited me let’s give a try if you are okay with it I will help you on stage.

The idea to perform in strip club really gave me goose bumps on my body allover and that’s also when Navish is not with me, I requested for some time to decide.

I thought about it and then decided to give it a try, why not actually I have that kink in me.

I agreed to Clarice and then she gave me a very skimpy dress to wear, which I went to their changing room and get into this, it was all over transparent skirt only my nips & vagina was bit hidden, rest all my body was visible.

And after few minutes she invited me to come with her on stage, there were around 20-30 guys in that private area of club and she had to perform in front of all, and then music started and she announced from stage that one of her friend who came from Dubai, wants to perform with her, and it was me.

I just reached on the stage and my heart beating so fast was, just was thinking what is going to happen in next few minutes.

And here we both started dancing, I was just trying to follow her steps as it was bit tough for me, but I tried. And here the times comes where Clarice removed her top, and looked at me I was still double minded should I go for it, but Clarice just came near to me and helped me to remove my Top, and my upper part of body was bare in front of so many guys and all were staring at me. And then after few more moves of dance we both were fully naked on the stage. It was an amazing experience, never this happened in swingers experience where I was naked and these many eyes were on me & her body only.

Later stage of performance is to go to tables where guys drinking and ask them if they wanna touch them, and Clarice took me also with her to each n every table and all guys were touching my bare body, someone was touching on my nips & someone tried to touch on pussy. I was feeling so horny as well.

It was really an amazing experience and very different from whatever we have done in swingers lifestyle. I have performed with her then in her main area for normal public also in her last performance for the night, where more guys were there it was crowded and around 150 guys were there if I am not wrong.

So this was my experience as stripper, which was experience of an exotic, mix of seduction and mystery.

How I look now while remembering that experience, when I took my clothes off was really a key to kinkiness in my mind.

Hope you all will love this experience as well, please do not forget to give your comments & feedback.

With Love,

Amaaya

Threesome Chapter: From a Nepali Follower Sid

First time I am posting someone else experience, please comment if I should post more if others want to share their experiences! Amaaya

 

It was a mundane Friday afternoon like any other. Movement in Kathmandu city was thin owing to the Indian blockade and to the growing unrest in the Terai. As a concerned Nepali, the crisis and the political imbroglio were continuously hammering on my head. Thoughts like “Where is my country heading to?” , “How will the crisis resolve?” were pestering me like a ticks bothering the stray dogs. But these concerns were only affecting the good social responsible citizen inside me. They did not matter much to my other side — the bad kinky one. The bad boy in me was restless for a different reason altogether. He was dying to have a good hot passionate and crazy threesome with any open-minded couple. But alas there was no hint that good tidings were on my way. And suddenly, my phone beeped and there was this wonderful couple (NepaleseLovers) on the other end excited to meet with me. This moment it felt like I have found an oasis in desert after being stranded there for weeks. It felt like a drop of rain hitting a ground scorched by hot sun and battered by drought. In short, my inner self felt like I have found my lifeline. However, no matter how many threesomes I have, no matter how much experience I have sexually, the idea of a new fuck, a new sex encounter still gives my adrenaline a huge rush. I felt a rush of warm blood flowing all over me, specially hitting my pelvic zone and making me wish the fuck appointment would happen sooner. I felt like I was a teenage boy waiting for the beauty of the school. The excitement was to this level. But even after all the excitement and the wish to meet and fuck, I was a bit worried about what kind of couple my fuckmates would be? Will the guys be good-looking, and clean, and charming, and open minded enough so that we could take the session to the height that we collectively deserved ? Luckily, the wait was over soon and there was a knock at my door and Bingo ! there was this wonderful, smart and sexy couple. They are almost certainly one of the best Nepali couple here on theadulthub, very down to earth, both are young & very open minded and HOT!!! The lady was a jaw dropping beauty. She had such a perfect body that can give anyone an instant boner. I generally get a hard on soon when I see a seemingly innocent face with a devil inside. Something like Anastasia from the Fifty Shades of Grey !! She was a perfect match to my fantasies. She was this kind of lady with lovely eyes, beautiful cute pink lips, humble yet attractive boobs, clean-cute-tight and well-shaped pussy, the kind which is always wet and hungry for a good dick. Everything in her is perfect n awesome. The tattoo on her body and the passion in eyes were the greatest turn on. Apart from being friendly and co-operative she was an absolute Goddess of lust, no doubt. The kind which could even melt any bull in bed. The guy had all the gentleman like qualities, very smart and attractive, very friendly, nice big tool {lucky she} which he know how to use well. {If you are a swinging couple and want to give your wife a good dick treat, I would recommend him on the basis of how he fucked his wife}. He is an unbelievable fucker indeed; he knows how to satisfy and treat a lady on bed, very wild and hot , when it comes to sex, he is beyond your imagination. He is too good by nature and on bed he can make any lady his sex slave by his sexual techniques. And yet, the gentleman and the lady gave me the honour to undress her, to have a great foreplay with her and when I requested for a 69, I remember how the lady looked at her man and he nodded in permission. The next moment my dick was in her mouth with the slurping sound and ecstatic pleasure. I licked her pussy for all the sweet taste it had to offer. Her pussy smelled so raw and tasted warm. I felt like I would give up all the delicacies of the world and go on licking it all my life. The best part was to tongue fuck her and make her moan and see her partner smile in content at the happiness that was beaming from her face. We had not put on any music. So the room smelled of wet pussy and hard dicks and the sound that punctuated the otherwise silence of the room was our groans and the moaning of our lady. Besides, the bang bang sound as I fucked, oops, as we fucked her, and the spanking of her ass cheeks {as we did is doggie} was also filling into the silence of the room. She was strict about no kissing on the lips, as she believed it was only for her man, and I found that completely ok as her pussy, her boobs, her ass and all the rest of the body was mine, even though just for the day. When I finally came after this hot and passionate session, I was surprised to see how much I cam. I had secretly fantasized plastering her face with my warm cum but like a gentleman I knew my limits. It was a great, unforgettable and satisfying experience meeting u both. Looking forward to meet this wonderful couple again for more amazingly hot sessions………